Gattatok

Hey, I convinced my buddy to give this a shot and he loves it so far, but I was hoping to get people's opinions on a good server to pick. My buddy is up for just about anything except for pvp, but I really like costume contests and themed events. Are there any servers like that for us to join? We don't have a whole lot of time after work to play... Also, if this is the wrong place for this question, I apologize.