bro, I'm from california, we will call you dude, man, bro, whatever and it won't matter for a millisecond what actual gender you are.... stop reading into things you can only understand and get with the program. This isn't about your sensitivity, this is not about what you think is right or wrong, this will not even ever be about preference... I just want bullying in homecoming to stop, and it has to stop on the level of development first... How is that hard to get? Do you WANT to be bullied by management? JUST READ