I enjoy the raids. I am especially thankful to anyone that takes a leadership role, it must be difficult. I don't show up because I need the raids, the influence, the threads, etc. (though they are a nice bonus) I show up for the camaraderie. I like the dancing, and the joking, and the occasional trivia that emerges. I like to enjoy a light-hearted raid and work to contribute to that as well as killing Hamidon. Online games are unique in that they provide a solitary and social environment all at once. We create the community we want to have. If you're in a bad mood or don't feel like you can participate than skip a night or two. This is a game, it's not your job, and it's certainly not your life. Trust me, if you make sure others are enjoying themselves, you will too. This isn't a zero-sum-game, everyone can win and if you're not having fun, you're doing it wrong.