We're getting pretty far afield of the original post, which simply asked if Torchbearer was the unofficial LGBTQ server. It's a harmless question, no different from earlier threads asking if Everlasting was the unofficial RP server. All this everyone-is-welcome stuff is fine, great, fantastic, let's all sing Kumbaya...but none of it actually addresses the question. Is Torchbearer the unofficial LGBTQ server or not?
If it isn't, I say just come to Everlasting, y'all, so the queer RPers aren't left out in the cold.