I told my kids that this game was great, and the community was safe, friendly, and welcoming. I convinced them to give it a try, and up until tonight, all of them were grooving on it.
And then tonight, my daughter Karen was playing. Someone in-game was making "Karen" jokes. You've seen the memes, so you know the jokes. She asked, politely and without giving anything away about herself, if the guy could stop. He not only didn't, he doubled down, actually *calling* my daughter Karen a "Karen." and insulting her.
She told him that her name actually was Karen, and that she would appreciate it if he could cut the insults and the humor.
Suddenly it was like a pack of sharks and blood was in the water. My daughter was dog-piled by bullies. Suddenly brand new characters popped up named things like "Linda von Karen" and "Karen the Destroyer" and "Go Home Karen" and "Karen Suxx". And of course, the joking got worse.
My daughter came to me, crying and in tears, complaining about all the cyber-bullying. I got on and asked around about what happened, and yes, I got angry over the mistreatment of my daughter. And I was told that my daughter being upset was her own fault because she needed to "toughen up." I was told that it was my fault for naming her Karen in the first place. I was told that she had no business playing the game at all if she couldn't take a little "hazing." I was told that I was in the wrong for not warning her about bullies.
Well, I did warn her. I just didn't expect to find them in such large numbers in CoH. And I certainly didn't expect to have them dog-pile my daughter.
Congratulations, you bullied a brand new player out of the game. She never wants to play again, and the rest of my kids are expressing doubts, too. Good job, you successfully made a teenager feel horrible about herself because of her name.
I bet your momma's are all very, very proud of you now.