I am sincerely curious as to what server you joined, cause you're hitting me with some culture shock. Come to Everlasting. I know it's the "roleplay" server, but if you're looking to just group up and slap things I cannot suggest it enough. Most of what I see on there is just doing some radios, "Kill as we go" TFs. You can usually find at least 2 or 3 other people for whatever you're doing at the time.