As a newly returned player, I get frustrated in groups where everyone knows what is happening and they expect me to as well. No matter how clear I am that I've recently returned, have no 50s and am taking my time enjoying the content, there is always a few people who want "efficiency" or speed.
Now, there is nothing wrong with these attitudes. But what it really comes down to is communication. When you join a team, ask if it is OK to stealth the end. Ask the expectations. It takes all of 30 seconds to type it out. Less if you make a macro.
One of the things I always loved about COH/COV, was the community. I have not been disappointed since my return. People are generally helpful, kind, and generous. (Shout-out to Bathory on Reunion). To keep the community healthy, I think we need to communicate more, and be willing to say, "Hey, this group isn't for me. I want to move fast and this guy wants to read the mission reports. Have fun, I'm out." Conversely, the newbie like me also has to be willing to say, "If y'all are moving fast, I shouldn't be here. I want to read this stuff. Have fun." In the end, we each have fun doing different things in different ways. We have to remember to respect that and recognize when our own expectations aren't being met and communicate effectively.
