So here's my most up-to-date build for my Shade, always a work in progress, which I'll have to look at since it's been awhile. I still have my Human-Only build somewhere around here, I'll have to look or save it from the game, it's resists were comparable to my dwarf.
Anyways, this is what works for me: Combat port into a mob for that lil extra tohit, Shadow Slip, Eclipse, double Mire followed by Quasar. I might hit Dark Extraction to find the nearest body and use the same to setoff Unchain Essence before hitting Stygian Circle as needed.
SpAwN of SiBeR (9-27-22) TriForm CURRENT.mbd