You could run herostats and see what your damage is and if she runs her herostats you can compair your results.
As far as i can remember your auras do the most damage, so Blazing Aura and Quils should be on top but what also could matter is how much agro you've go since you're a Brute. More agro is more damage.
https://sourceforge.net/projects/herostats/