just would like to bring up: when my Grandpa was playing this game on live before he passed on, He had many 50s, was in a Top 10 SG on Justice Server, had many friends and was extremely well liked. He was a slow paced player, and much of his information, he relied on our prima guide from 2004; He used the wikis for badges but wasn't as you say the most cutting edge player. Now looking at his 50s, his builds, his IO sets he had, most would assume he was Top of his Game; but it was from the aid of our combined understanding. He commonly would call me to help him from getting lost in a mission. He would forget simple things like binds and emote strings that he had memorized for years; resulting in more and more time street sweeping and just doing what he Loved in this game.
And not once, did he tell me he was kicked. Not once did someone yell at him for forgetting how to get to a zone. No one abandoned him for getting lost in missions. He wasn't removed from his SG. He wasn't held back from completeing Hami raids and sadly he didnt get to see the incarnate trials release... Everyone was genuinely trying to help.
In summary, what im trying to say is; I used to get frustrated explaining the same concepts over and over to him, and he in turn got frustrated with himself; But take a step back and breath, don't mean to be saying the same ole rhetoric which i find so out of taste... but we should be friendly and respectful to one another, for we have one thing in common.
This game. Especially to a returning player.
much love