Yes, you are. Because pretendy fun time games.
So, you outright judge others and belittle them, because some people happen to enjoy gaming in a serious way or as a dedicated hobby, rather than your lackadaisical and carefree attitude towards the game? I don't understand how you can take this stance. Don't you see your hypocrisy? You criticize me for not "being a good sport" presumably and grouping with "casual players" (I don't like that term as I have no stigma towards casual players, but regardless) but then you say it's outright wrong to play in a manner where someone might care about efficiency.
Your main example is one where you use the DPS meter tool to kick a player.
This is fundamentally at odds with the general CoH community.
In general, the players in this community are relaxed and enjoy a less job focused playstyle.
As you can see from sheer numbers here in this thread alone, the popularity of such DPS elitism is ismply unwanted here in this community.
You call us all the names you like, from lackadaisical to carebears to filthy casuals to hypocrites.
The fundamental use you have for the tool, to use it to beat other players with, to shame them and kick them, is what we fight against.
Not becoming better players.
Not analyzing our own DPS.
Not learning to use powers better.
The use you propose, from your first post, is to use the tool as a weapon against other players.
For this community, we see that as elitist, exclusionist and just plain old mean, jerk behaviour.
Why should we treat people who are being jerks like anything other than jerks?
+1 Inf