It's ok for people to use it, it's ok for you to dislike people using it. If you care enough about wanting to know more why someone responded that way, ask them. If not, disregard it. I do think different people use it in different ways, so it might actually be worthwhile to ask on occasion.
I am curious if the actual JRanger knows about Homecoming. I'm guessing he'd say "No." whether he did or not.