Before even reading the above, I was going to say "keep asking questions, but try not to ask the same thing repeatedly if you're looking to avoid irritating people", but the comment about searching (ok, sometimes "I" forget too) is highly applicable as well. As for the "I'm leaving because people are complaining", that's on you and while I've not a clue as to any of the related discussions, this 'feels' a bit less cool headed than I try to encourage people to be. People can be jerks, people can be mean (report that crap), and sometimes you just gotta let them talk out the hole they've chosen.