Okay, I've been able to encapsulate my main problem with this episode.
When someone tries to equate the anger of watching your father murder your mother, and the severe physical trauma of being blown up, lasered, beaten, shot, stabbed, having your mind invaded on multiple instances, etc...
With an obnoxious co-worker or being cat-called.
And confusing low-level constant stress with massive, INFLICTED psychological wounds.