Busy schedule right now, people to talk to, bodies to bury, you know. I can look at mids in a few days
The important thing is you can run it. I mentioned some players have complained they cannot keep my build alive. I find it nearly unkillable.
I do like you softcap idea. For the trade off it seems reasonable. For 95% of content your life (unlife?) will be easier. That said I always build for that other 5%. I get shit luck. Or peeps hate vampires. Hard to say.
My newest thought comes from some forum posts. Adding Soul Mastery Darkest Night to my Dark Darks. This will drop some more end, which no doubt can only be solved with Alpha slot or judicious use of end drain / refill power. (Which i am good at watching). It will reduce incoming damage by more to hit debuffs and flat out damage reduction. I need to play teat that too